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For a change, a serious and complex American relationship movie

Flannel Pajamas, which concerns a New York thirty-something mixed (Jewish-Catholic) couple whose marriage doesn't make it, is that rare thing, a smart, serious American relationship movie. It’s not going to get much exposure, and critics have been too hard on it, but they’ve also acknowledged that it’s something quite special: a film about couples life that doesn’t go for laughs but for accuracy, and that gives you as much to think about as an intelligent play. It’s sad if that doesn’t work for the American movie audience, as is implied by the trade-oriented critics saying The History Boys doesn’t work on film. What’s wrong with transferring a smart play to film, if it’s more than okay to transfer a dumb novel? But this isn’t a transfer. It’s the direct product of the keen observations of Jeff Lipsky, a leading indie film producer, who both wrote and directed. Earlier this year we saw Trust the Man, a relationship movie made by Julianne Moore’s husband Bart Freundlich. That was glossier and smoother, it had bigger names in it and it was very watchable, but as a study of relationship and marriage it wasn't half as thought-provoking as the sometimes painfully real Flannel Pajamas, and it was ruined by a flashy, preposterous ending, while Lipsky’s ending is subtle and touching.

Criticisms have been heaped upon Lipsky's film. Reviewers have said it’s overwritten, too talky, has too many themes and characters to keep track of; that the latter part doesn’t have enough dramatic momentum; that the Montana homestead of the wife’s family looks too East Coast and too perfect while the husband's condo is too cold and empty; that the movie has no distinctive look. Maybe. And maybe not. I’m not sure those requirements would be held as necessary or seen as quite so damning in the French or Swedish films this resembles. But the critics have dwelt so much on what they see as flaws that they’ve doomed the film to a low critical rating – perhaps with the exception of Salon’s Andrew O’Hehir, who calls it a “masterpiece” and the “finest relationship film of the year.” He may be right on the latter count.

Let’s look for a minute at the pluses. To start with, Stuart Sawyer (Justin Kirk) and Nicole Reilly, (Julianne Nicholson ), the two main characters, who’re seen from every angle (including frontally nude) feel authentic in every scene. Whether they’re in or out of sync in their relationship, they play together equally well. Dialogue and action have a Seventies-style frankness: we’re much closer to John Cassavetes and Ingmar Bergman than to Nora Epron or Woody Allen. Glib romantic comedy has been traded in for keen psychological and moral observation. And it's a welcome change.

The successive scenes each examine the couple’s dynamic from another angle. When Stuart goes home to Montana with Nicole, it’s a sequence without jokey clashes à la last year’s The Family Stone. Stuart gets to know some people a little bit and some not at all, just as in real life. He doesn’t get the full force of Nicole’s mother’s honesty and disapproval till Nicole has a miscarriage late in the film (Rebecca Schull is terrific in the scene). Before that, the wedding is finely handled, with speeches by Nicole’s best friend Tess (Chelsea Altman) and Stuart’s brilliant, suicidal brother Jordan (Jamie Harrold) that feel completely right.

Lipsky doesn’t set up the dissolution of the marriage obviously. This is a movie about relationships that may make you do some personal soul-searching, even as you go back over the sequences of scenes in your mind. You’re not sure at first how the marriage fails. You don’t know the moment when it happens. But you know what it’s about: Nicole's become mopey and sad, and Stuart's too selfish. While pledging support for her catering business with his life savings, he not only makes her wait two years to have a baby, and then wants to stall after that; he doesn’t even want to let her have a dog. As he admits to his father, Stuart was probably too self-centered to succeed in a marriage from the start. Nonetheless obviously Stuart charms us more, as we saw him charm Nicole on their first date; but his flaws were present from the first, masked by the charm. His job as a promoter consists, he frankly states, of inventing complete lies about plays, and Nicole eventually realizes he’s a talker, not a listener. He really is selfish, and though he keeps saying over and over he loves Nicole, you always have doubts. She is far more honest, but perhaps was too fragile to judge him carefully. Both have screwed up families, his Jewish, divorced, and including the nutty brother; hers Catholic and alcoholic.

As the movie unfolds over its two hours, you often get a chance to think about the contrast between the successive stages of first date, courtship, lustful sex, romance, marriage, separate masturbation, and final estrangement. Tellingly, both isolation (Stuart, perhaps surprisingly for a Broadway promoter, has few friends or business-related social life) and too much closeness (he has trouble handling Nicole’s big family) are equally hard for the couple to handle. You gradually realize they didn’t have what it takes to make the transition from romance into family life, and that, in short, they weren’t ever a good match. The pathway to this realization is an interesting one.

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